RELATIONSHIP
REBOOT
YOUR A-Z BLUEPRINT FOR RECONNECTING WITH YOUR SPOUSE

Losing Hope?

If your spouse is saying...

"I want a divorce"

"I don't want to see you"

"You'll never change"

"I'm not happy here"

You've tried...

Demanding her to stay...

Apologizing...

Opening communication...

But she says
"It's over"

She wants the divorce.

Just telling her "You've changed" it's not enough

You need a plan...

To draw your spouse in like a magnet

1.Open communication
2. Stop the affair
3. Stop the divorce
4. Get her to recommit

WHY THE
THE RELATIONSHIP REBOOT 
METHOD WORKS
Who Is This Course For?

 You want to save your marriage from divorce and 
have a healthy, happy marriage

 You want to be a good example to your children and give them and your marriage the happiest life possible.

 You crave being open, intimate and honest with your spouse and for them to be a team with you.

 You want to stop an affair that's hurting your marraige

 Anyone who wants to know they gave their marriage every chance possible.

Sounds like you?
Cool.
"My husband left the other woman and came back to me!!"
A Testimonial from Leah Smith
WHAT YOU GET:
MODULE #1
re-OPENING COMMUNICATION
How to Re-establish a Connection with your partner so that you can start to communicate better even if they're checked out

You'll discover the 4 Life-Saving Text Messages to send to re-open communication.

You'll know what to do when your spouse won't talk  to you.

We'll walk you through the Re-opening communication Roadmap designed to help you change your marriage for the better even if you don't know where to start.

You'll learn the Damage Control Systems designed to stop the damage from separation so you can start to rebuild. 

We'll show you the 3 Crucial Steps to setting healthy boundaries so you can communicate with respect and love while protecting yourselves. 

You'll use Heart Healing Meditation Ritual to stop feeling the pain and have inner peace so you can change yourself for the better. 

 Plus, we'll give you Root Cause X-Ray Scanner to find the exact source of your marital problems so you can work on real resolution. 

MODULE #2
RESTORING HOPE
In this module we walk you through how to Build Mutual Trust so you can feel safe and close to each other again. 

We'll show you exactly how to meet your partner's needs so you can re-connect... even if they don't want to talk. 

You'll discover the 6 Key Ingredients in every healthy relationship so you can work through your problems and communicate. 

You'll see why comfort is essential when healing your marriage. 

You'll get our Emotional Painkiller™  designed to clear negative energy and instantly relieve you from pain, tension and fear. 

We'll show you how to communicate face-to-face and really talk to each other, even if your partner distances themselves.  

We'll reveal the Intimate Connection Shortcut to build more intimacy and trust overnight... even if you have hurt each other in the past. 

Plus, you'll discover The Golden Question that will instantly get your partner to open up so you can understand each other and rebuild. 
"We just agreed to stopping the divorce"
A Testimonial By Tina Turner
MODULE #3
BRINGING THE LOVE BACK
 In this module we cover everything you need to bridge the gap between yourselves and work together as a team to restore your marriage. 

We'll show you how to Cut to the Core Problems so you can talk things through without fighting all the time.  

You'll solve problems together and set a better example for your kids. 

You'll learn about the 5 Conversation Traps holding you back from communicating properly and keeping you stuck in a painful rut. 

We'll show you the Principles to Effective Problem Solving  so you can have a healthy and positive relationship again. 

You'll develop your Wise Man Mindset to help guide yourself to where you want to be in your marriage even if you don't know where to start. 

Plus, you'll get our Resistance Busting Toolbox for starting a critical conversation and making progress... even if your spouse has checked out. 
MODULE #4
CREATING YOUR FUTURE
This final module gives you everything you need to let go of past pains and move forward into your future.

We'll show you how to make Effective Changes that lasts to reestablish trust and close the distance between you to restore your marriage. 

You'll get our 3 Restoration Shortcuts designed to help you reconcile faster and restore hope for your marriage even if it seems impossible. 

You'll learn to forgive yourself and your spouse. 

You'll be able to change yourself for the better and be a more loving person so you can set a better example for your family. 

We'll reveal how to Turn Tragedy into Triumph and turn difficult times into a positive experience so you can rekindle a deep relationship.

Plus, you will learn the 1 Essential Meditation that will keep you going so you can have a healthy relationship without setbacks. 
WHAT'S INSIDE THE COURSE?
THIS IS WHAT YOU GET INSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP REBOOT
"I love having my spouse back again"
A Testimonial By Derrick K.
"I wasn't sure at first... but now I know, changing myself, I got her to stop the divorce"
A Testimonial By Isabel
BENEFITS & BONUSES

TO ENSURE YOU ARE 100% SUCCESSFUL
GROUP SUPPORT
 Get access to our secret "Relationship Reboot Community" for asking questions and communicating with other students.  
INTIMACY BUILDER
 You will get our 4 proven Intimacy Incentives for creating amazing closeness and safety to deepen your connection. 

 Our list of jumpstarters to save you time, especially if the intimacy is dead in your marriage currently.

 Get our "Frequently Asked Questions Vault" a compiled document of every question we've ever been asked about how to reconnect with your spouse and our answers. 

 You get access to our Quick-Start Intimacy Guide to get your spouse warming up to you fast.

 An ''8 Week Intimacy Plan'' with 38 clear micro-steps for you to take action and continually deepen the level of intimacy in your marriage.

ULTIMATE TRUST RESTORATION RECIPE
 The exact ingredients you need to restore trust once more in your marriage!

 The connection between trust and intimacy and the proven method to make your marriage Lie-Proof. 

 The ingredient you must have if you have been the one to break trust in your marriage so your partner can move past their pain and fear and believe you again.

 The ingredient you must have if your spouse has broken your trust to allow full healing and restoration to occur. Plus, how to know that they won't hurt you again.

 How to get your spouse to trust you with their innermost thoughts and have the close, connect relationship you crave.

"I decided trying to save my marriage was better than not trying at all..."
A Testimonial By Bruce Fox
WHAT'S THE PRICE TO JOIN?
There are two options
[PREMIUM]
ONLINE COURSE + BONUSES
RELATIONSHIP REBOOT 
premium
$
97

  • THE COMPLETE COURSE (47+ VIDEOS)
  • SECRET REBOOT COMMUNITY 
  • BONUS: CUSTOM MARRIAGE ANALYSIS 
  • BONUS: MAGNETIZE YOUR MARRIAGE
  • BONUS: TRUST RESTORATION RECIPE
  • BONUS: IGNITE YOUR INTIMACY COURSE
  • BONUS: GROUP COACHING SESSION

[REBOOT BASIC]
ONLINE COURSE ONLY
RELATIONSHIP REBOOT 
BASIC VERSION
$
67

  • THE COMPLETE COURSE (47+ VIDEOS)
  • BONUS: SECRET REBOOT COMMUNITY
  • BONUS: MAGNETIZE YOUR MARRIAGE

We Go Out Of Our Way To Help Our Students
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS 
Is this going to work?
Every situation is different but we only have one hard and fast rules about a marriage that this course will not help.
  
You have 0 communication. No phone calls, visits, texts. Nada. If that's your situation, I'm sorry but this course isn't for you.

The real issue is really your fear.

Fear that it won't work.

Fear that you'll spend money or put forth effort and it won't pan out.

That's understandable and often natural, but check-in with yourself. Where will that kind of fear-based decision making lead you?

Is it going to save your marriage?

Get your spouse back?

Or is it going to waste more time while they slip further and further away?

Many people join our programs with a bit of skepticism, but their hope and desire for it to work outweighs their fear. They want to know that they gave their marriage the best shot of working and that they did everything they could to save it.

I'll stop talking now and simply share with you others who felt the way you do....
What if I can’t get my spouse to open up or communicate with me?
If you haven't been able to help your spouse open up to you so far, it is very unlikely that you will be able to do so on your own going forward. It's time to learn some new skills and learn exactly what you need to do to get your spouse to open up.
Depending on your situation there are a few things that might be able to break through the silence.

1. It may require a change in approach. If there are qualities about how you interact with your spouse that don’t encourage open communication we may need to help you adjust some of those habits

2. It may need some calculated space. Sometimes if a spouse is really pulling back, it may be beneficial to give them the space they are asking for. Knowing when to do this and how though without it backfiring are going to be essential for this to be effective.

3. It may require personal changes. Your mindset, or how you think and feel, have huge impacts on the atmosphere and tone in any given interaction. At times simply changing the way you view the relationship may produce the result you are looking for.

We can help you figure out what the right method is in order to open up the lines of communication, even when they are nearly completely closed off.

What if my spouse has already filed for a divorce?
While the situation becomes more difficult after a filing it doesn’t mean that it is the end. Even divorce itself does not spell absolute doom given the right circumstances.

 
It does however, mean that time is critical and you need all the tools available to help you patch this delicate situation. Even if your spouse has filed for divorce there is still hope if any of the following are true:

-You have regular contact of any sort
-You are still living in the same home or see each other at least several times a month
-You are in some ways amiable or friendly with each other still

AND

-You are willing to make major life changes

Even if you don’t meet every one of the above conditions there is still hope as long as there is an ability to communicate with your spouse.

What if my spouse can’t recognize the positive changes I’m making and/or twists everything I do into something negative?
This is normal and expected. 

 
Most of the time this comes about because they are trying to justify a potentially difficult and painful decision. 

It isn’t easy to put aside a relationship that has lasted for years and the more they can feel good about leaving you, the easier it becomes. This is why benign and innocent actions are seen, at time, in a negative light.
 
BUT, this doesn’t mean there isn’t a way to fix this. There are things you can say and do that will help break down the negative narrative they have built up about you. Ways to introduce some doubt into their decision to leave. 

Most people don’t know how to work this technique because most of the time it isn’t necessary, but when someone is thinking about leaving, it is critical you start doing it right away.


We've already tried counseling, or are thinking about counseling, how is this program different?
Traditional counseling meets once per week for 45 minutes up to 90 (if you’re lucky).

We realize that if things aren’t going well in your marriage, the situation warrants more attention and more effort.

That is why we offer one on one sessions, twice weekly group sessions, workshop material, homework assignments and unlimited email support. We want to give you all the resources, tools and skills you need to succeed.

Beyond that our approach combines the good parts of traditional counseling (an objective point of view, insightful questioning, and an expert knowledge of the subject) with more of a guiding hand.

We ALWAYS give actionable steps to take with every one of your concerns, we focus EVERYTHING on marriage and relationship problems which means we have detailed plans on how to fix just about any problem, and unlike traditional counseling, we have specific overarching plans on how to go from any problem to a thriving marriage.

Won’t my spouse be upset at me taking this course when they have said they are already done?
Yes, it is possible that they may get upset. But is that worse than your marriage slowly crumbling? Worse than the eventual divorce you may be faced with? When a spouse is concerned about taking this course it usually comes down to one of two things:

-Either they’re upset because money is so tight that the price of this course is going to do serious damage (unlikely)

-Or they see it as a sign that you are still clinging to the relationship even after they have told you they want out (more likely) 

Clinging to the relationship sometimes upsets the spouse that is getting ready to leave. In some ways it invalidates that desire, makes it seem as though their opinion doesn’t matter.

This is easily sidestepped. All you need to do is reframe your efforts as something you need to do for yourself, downplay the negative impact it will have on them, and attempt to address any concern they may have with the purchase.

With the small price of this course though, this is unlikely to be a big issue in many situations. If it is, please contact us (support@highthrivecoaching.com) and we would be glad to give further suggestions in navigating this matter.

Does my spouse need to take the course with me?
No.

We actually recommend spouses go through the course on their own, even if they are wanting to do it together. The reason is, you need to take full responsibility for your part in the relationship and you can only do that on your own.

For many of our students, their spouse would be unwilling to do the course anyway and asking them to do so will only push them further away.

It is absolutely possible to save your marriage on your own. You can greatly alter the atmosphere of the relationship and in doing so, draw your partner back to you.
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